Don’t think that the conquest was only in dating. This one is for husbands: make your wife love you more and more!
From the very beginning, the holy scriptures report that God said: “It is not good for the man to be alone”. Marriage and family were established for us to live in love, happiness, togetherness and so many other wonders. But for that, each family member must do their part.
An indispensable task is that of the husband, that of conquering his wife daily. The following thirteen things will make your wife love you more and more:
1. Be a gentleman
Treat your loved one like a princess! In fairy tales, don’t be the white horse, be the prince who rides him. So, rock the kindness when treating her! Open as many doors as possible by letting her in first, in the car, the bank, the restaurant, even your house. Offer your coat when she’s cold, and if you don’t have a coat, a cozy hug will also do the trick.
2. Be honest
When you show honesty, people tend to trust you more.
One of the worst things you could do would be to be dishonest with your wife. A woman has a strong intuition, she will know that something is wrong, and this will make her sad, and her confidence in you will weaken.
3. Respect her space
Your loved one needs space, a little time of her own. Men have no idea how much painting their nails, moisturizing their hair or skin, renewing a woman’s energies. And she won’t want to do these things with you around telling her how long it takes or that it’s unnecessary.
4. Be affectionate
Surely every woman likes affection, this is an infallible demonstration of love. Stroke her hair until she falls asleep, hug her tight, pick a flower in your garden and give it to her, kiss her when you leave and when you get home, and publicly show your affection. These simple gestures will make her feel loved and safe being with you.
5. Have a dialogue
Dialogue between husband and wife is essential. The lack of dialogue is a sign that the marriage is frayed. Watch out for this!
Have a tradition of talking about the two of you, about the children, work and studies. Identify strengths and weaknesses in each other and talk about how you can improve what is bad and strengthen what is good. Learn to apologize when you fail.
Have a dialogue with God too, pray for your wife and pray together with her.
6. Have a sense of humor
Having a good laugh can reduce the risk of heart disease, increase the levels of good cholesterol in the blood, lower blood pressure, as well as strengthen the immune system, and many other health benefits. So, dear ones, be humorous. Make your wife laugh, because in addition to making her happy, you will be contributing positively to her health.
Every woman finds it very charming to see her husband cooking. Surprise her with a romantic dinner made by you! She will be delighted.
And if you don’t know how to cook, learn simpler recipes. Don’t worry about making fancy recipes, because either way, you’ll be taking the time to please her, and women love that.
8. Share responsibilities
To think that your responsibility is only to provide for the household and that the tasks of the home and taking care of the children are solely the responsibility of your wife, is a big mistake. You are together in this partnership that is marriage.
Don’t overload your wife. Share household chores, child care, and other things you can organize together, such as a family Christmas dinner and children’s birthday parties with her.
9. Take care of your appearance
Your appearance demonstrates your state of mind. A good appearance expresses joy, health, good character. Keep skin and hands clean, hair well-trimmed, beard clean, and don’t forget to be perfumed.
Surely your wife will understand if you come home from work sweating or even dirty, but she will be happy to see you quickly go to the shower and then come to hug her exhaling the perfume she loves.
10. Have a desire to progress
Don’t be stuck in time. Have plans, goals, want to get more knowledge, study, improve your job. Want to progress together with your loved one.
11. Be considerate
Women like to talk, but more than that, they like to be heard. Listen to her carefully, show her that you care about her worries, fears, and plans. Make time to talk regularly.
12. Unexpected calls and messages
Messages of “I love you”, “I miss you already”, or even a call to just say “I just wanted to hear your voice”, will surprise your wife and leave her sighing!
13. Make time for the two of you
As important as it is to be with the whole family, take time to be alone with your loved one. Set aside one day a week to spend time together, watching movies, going for a walk, going out to dinner, or even going for a walk. Let your children know about this day and how much effort you put into nurturing the love in your marriage.